Better Foreplay Techniques For Maximum Arousal
If the action in your bedroom is only lukewarm, foreplay is the best way to turn up the heat on the passion. Learning new and better foreplay techniques can spark maximum arousal and reward you with the most potent orgasms you've ever felt. Keep these advanced foreplay techniques in mind when you're trying to push your love life into high gear.
Foreplay Starts OUTSIDE the bedroom.
The single most important thing to remember about foreplay is that it starts long before you step through the bedroom door. Start making a point of touching your partner when there's no chance of the touch progressing to sex. Let your fingers trail over her hand or touch the inside of her wrist when you're in public. Rest a hand on her knee while you're driving. Sneak a passionate kiss when the kids are in the other room. That kind of intimacy makes your desire for her clear, and being wanted is one of the most potent forms of arousal.
Use your mouth.
There's more to foreplay than what your body does. The mind is the most important sexual organ in your body, so take the time to stimulate it. Outside the bedroom, take the time to tell your partner that she's sexy, or that she looks incredibly hot. Don't go silent once the action starts, either. Sexy talk can really ramp up the passion and kick her arousal into maximum overdrive. Talk about what you're doing, tell her you're going to drive her crazy, tease her with your words and encourage her to talk back to you.
Start with light touches at the beginning of foreplay.
It's more than an old saying. Women, in general, take longer to reach maximum arousal than men do. If you push too hard too fast, you could choke off budding heat. Instead of squeezing, stroke. Instead of pinching, feather your fingers lightly. Keep the touches gentle and teasing at first and move to firmer, longer touches and strokes as she responds to your actions.
Change it up to bring passion to a boil.
Do something unexpected now and then. Touch her places that are "off the beaten path," so to speak. Establish a rhythm and keep it going until she's writhing and moving with it -- then slow it down unexpectedly. Keep her guessing about what you'll do next, whether you'll keep going, where your fingers or mouth will touch, and you'll soon have her arousal at fever pitch as she begs you for more.